The Art of Listening
Ever noticed how rare it is to feel really heard? It’s almost like listening has become a forgotten skill in the rush of texts, emails, and half-hearted nods. But here’s the truth: listening—actually listening—isn’t just polite; it’s powerful.
Active listening is more than just waiting for your turn to speak. It’s about showing up, mentally and emotionally, in the moment. It’s leaning in, not just physically, but with your curiosity. It’s nodding because you care, not because you’re trying to wrap things up. When you listen actively, you’re signaling, “I value you enough to truly hear you.”
Want to sharpen this skill? Start small. Pause before you respond. Resist the urge to fix everything. After all, most people aren’t looking for solutions; they’re looking for connection. Repeat back what you heard—not like a robot, but to make sure you’re on the same page. And yes, even the awkward silences are okay; they’re often where the real gold lies.
Listening is a gift you give others. It’s also a way to understand more, grow deeper, and—dare I say—stand out. Because in a world full of noise, the one who listens becomes unforgettable.
Mitch Jackson | links