The High Road Isn’t Crowded—Even When It Comes to Competition

Let’s be honest—venting about your boss, company, or even your competitors might feel cathartic in the moment, but it’s a trap. Negativity, no matter how justified you think it is, sticks to you like gum on a hot sidewalk. And worse? It tells the world far more about you than the people or businesses you’re badmouthing.

When you badmouth, you’re not just airing grievances; you’re painting a picture of yourself as untrustworthy, small-minded, or—even worse—desperate. Think about it: would you want to work with someone who’s quick to throw shade at the competition to make themselves look better? Exactly.

Here’s the thing—competition isn’t the enemy. It’s the teacher. Sure, it might feel good to point out where they fall short, but the smarter move? Focus on what you do well. Let your results, your attitude, and your professionalism do the talking. When you take the high road, you’re saying, “I don’t need to tear anyone down to lift myself up.” That kind of quiet confidence? It’s magnetic.

This doesn’t mean you can’t acknowledge areas where your competition struggles. But do it tactfully. Highlight how your solutions are different or better without undermining their effort or worth. Remember, people notice how you handle rivals as much as they notice how you handle allies.

Because whether you’re talking about your boss, your company, or your competition, the principle is the same: your reputation is your résumé. Every word you say writes another line. Make sure those lines tell a story of leadership, respect, and undeniable class. That’s a story people want to read—and remember.

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Mitch Jackson | links